You see the world as you want to see.

Hello all! I'm back with yet another small message from my side for the day. Talking about the first blog which went out very well, or at least better than what I expected. I got mixed opinions and comments which put me in a fix. Some genuinely loved it whereas some pretended to love it, Hypocrites! Some pointed out the mistakes and helped me correct them, Mwah! And some dint show interest at all! For various reasons, either they were busy. blah! Or they might be my "enemies". Sigh! But doesn't matter because "enemies are your best critics and criticism indeed acts like your best friend." Or may be some were just plain ‘jealous’.

Oh! Here I get my topic for the day. See how sharp writing makes your mind. Well, jealousy is not something I enjoy thinking or discussing about but it is such a heartrending feeling that just plays on my mind even if it is either you who is going through it or even if you have been attacked by someone else's green eyes. Jealousy is a mixed emotion. It can either be positive or negative. It can be a beginning of a war or also a beginning of new and a beautiful feeling of love in your relationship.

Jealousy is sweet but at times it can also become evil. If seeing your friend getting attracted to someone else and not you makes you jealous that means you are falling in love with that someone. If you are already in a relationship and seeing your partner getting fascinated by someone else makes you jealous that means you care and it shows how much the person means to you that it becomes so hard to watch him even look at someone else. But, not to misunderstand me, too much of jealousy also does not remain sweet for long. At some point the ‘trust’ factor may also come in which you have to maintain to avoid any scuffle.

Getting back to my topic of discussion and leaving my extra ‘philosophies’ aside. Lol, you know me. :p No matter how painful jealousy is, it can be handled and can be taken in a positive attitude as well. If seeing your competitors win always, even after you working so hard, pinches you and makes you jealous then it is only for good coz that jealousy can give u a boost to work harder the next time. Make use of your anger and put all your aggression on the task in context and no one will dare to take it away from you the next time.

Look, even this devil jealousy can give u benefits in disguise. But what about other envious eyes constantly nagging you on every action of yours? Don’t bother friends , because jealousy is the best compliment. Every time you see a person getting jealous of you that just shows you have something that they don’t and which they desire. And the ones who act like a b****h, those poor losers are having an inferiority complex which again makes you the superior one.

To conclude, it is not only jealousy that can be taken positively but also any other negativity that puts you off every now and then. You got to be an optimist to live life to the fullest without any miseries and tensions. “You see the world as you want to see.”

And what you don’t want to see then just shut your eyes and pretend that if u cannot see the world then even the world cannot see you. I know I am gonna get zillions of fingers pointing at me for this statement of mine. But I couldn’t care less. Coz if this is what makes you happy, even if it is temporary, then nothing on this earth can be more important than that. Life is too short to be anything but Happy. So…

Kiss slowly, love deeply, forgive quickly.

Take chances and never have regrets.

Forget the past but remember what it taught you.

XOXO